Monday, April 14, 2008

The hardest thing to hear...

So, it has been a long week for Kyle and I. On Tuesday I started to lose the baby, and on Wednesday we had an ultrasound. Dr. Boheen found that the baby hadn't grown at all since our last appointment, and things didn't look right. Its been really hard for us, because we were so excited about having this baby. I guess that my body was just trying to do what was best for the baby, because Dr. Boheen said that it was probably a chromosomal problem. She said that during cell division, some of the cells probably didn't divide right, so the baby couldn't develop normally. I guess this happens all the time, and it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with us. Although it hurts, we understand that heavenly father doesn't make mistakes and this was supposed to happen. I think that we will definitely become stronger from this experience. We just hope that next time, everything is normal :)

6 comments:

Cade & Kelsey said...

Oh my gosh! I am so sorry to hear that. That has to be the hardest thing. Cade will be so sad to hear. That really does make me so sad for you guys. I'm glad you commented on our blog so now we can stay in touch better. We talk about you guys often and wonder how your doing. We should get together and do dinner sometime. I really am sorry to hear of your bad news. Let us know if we can do anything.

Brad & Britt said...

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You guys are such a good couple and will be blessed with another baby when the time is right. We love you guys!

Brad & Britt said...

p.s. i dont know what you are talking about....your blog looks GREAT! Where did you come across the backdrop? I love it!

Ky and Kel said...

Thanks everyone for all of your support. I know that everything will be alright. We will have a cute little baby someday, just not as soon as we thought :) Thanks Brit! I got it off of that pyzam.com site. I love it!

Sandra said...

Kelli - I am so glad you found us, we have been at Disneyland this past week and just got home. I was so happy to read your comment. :)

However, I am so sad to read this post. I had no idea that this had happened and am impressed how well you are handling it. You're right, it is just not in the plans right now but will be blessed with another one! That poem is so sweet and brought me to tears. We send all our love and hope you are feeling comforted at this time.
love ya!

Matt and Nicole said...

Wow Kelli I am so sorry...I can't imagine what it would be like and go through that. You guys have a great attitude though and you are so right in that our heavenly father doesn't know how to make mistakes, even if it seems unfair at times. I know Matt learned that with his cancer and the important thing to remember is there is a plan in everything no matter how horrible it seems. We love you guys and know you will be able to have a little one terrorizing your life real soon!

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